How The Universal Laws Help You Detach From Your Manifestation
"I NEED THIS. GOTTA HAVE IT!"
Whenever I OBSESS over specific results, they elude me. Here’s why.
New York Times best selling author Gabby Bernstein preaches not to force a specific result when manifesting our goals. Roxie Nafousi and Kathrin Zenkina agree. Detaching from your manifestation is the gold dust that gets you results deeper, faster, easier.
There’s no forcing the universe, so let's stop willing it. You may need to strengthen your faith to pull this off. Faith in the universe. Certain that THIS OR SOMETHING BETTER is on its way to you.
If this chat about experiencing uncertainty and joy at the same time freaks you out then you may be one of those folks who like to obsess over outcomes. I know, it's a very human trait.
There's so much temptation to exercise control when we're attached to getting a specific result. But control comes from a place of fear and doubt. Control is what we do when we don't believe we can do something. We fear what might happen if we don't micromanage every step.
Here’s What To Do Instead Of Clinging To An Outcome
When we trust that we're going to be okay no matter what, we don't have to meddle with the universe. This trust sets us free. The possibilities are endless when you're not fixated on a specific result or the correct path. So lean in to trust, certainty and freedom.
RECOGNISE FORCES OUTSIDE YOUR CONTROL
Don’t waste energy trying to manage and change things that cannot be managed or changed.
Don’t meddle in other people’s business.
And most importantly, get off the universe's back. It's beyond your immediate influence and control. Let go of excessive control and let life flow naturally. Activate the universal Law Of Allowing. When we focus on what we can influence and let the rest go, we find freedom, peace, alignment.
RETHINK YOUR WANTS AND NEEDS
What you want to manifest is up to you. You get clear on it, declare it, visualise it and get excited about it. Then you let it go.
Detachment means giving up what you want to the universe. You can call the universal Law Of Detachment for this. Make detaching easier by realising what makes you truly happy.
You may want your manifestation but you don't need it in order to feel content. In your heart, it doesn't matter if you get your outcome. You'll be happy either way. This is how manifesting becomes effortless because you stop CHASING, SEARCHING, WILLING and OBSESSING.
SURRENDER TO THE FEELING OF LOST SAFETY
It's part of being human to feel insecure and fear not getting what we want. So we grab and hold onto what we desire. But holding onto something, even mentally, creates tension and resistance in our bodies. We literally contract our muscles when gripping.
Any sustained contraction brings tension and stresses to the muscle. The body perceives this stress as a threat leading to increased anxiety and fear. So the process of holding tightly reinforces your underlying anxieties about the outcome. It’s a vicious cycle.
Worries about not being good enough, fear of failure, and fear of the unknown are examples of these concerns. Grip, tension, stress, anxiety and fear feed off each other.
LOWER TENSION AND ANXIETY
Relaxation and tension exclude each other. Switching off one of them will let the other flow into your life.
Your body can’t hold both relaxation and tension at once. The stronger one cancels the weaker out. Anxious energy can overpower the feeling of love and abundance. By letting go of your anxious grip on a particular manifestation, you evaporate that tension.
SHIFT FROM FEAR TO FAITH
Release any fear and anxiety surrounding your manifestations. By shifting from fear, you allow for more synchronicity and support. You create space to channel the empowered feeling you're after. The feeling you will feel once you've reached your goal.
What is it? Security, exhilaration, harmony?
Make space for this positive feeling. Feel it. This is how you align with your manifestation.
Having faith that you'll get this result or something better will fill you with love and excitement. Your high vibe energy will attract positive outcomes.
GROWING TO ALLOW FOR EVEN BIGGER MANIFESTATIONS
You'll face surprises and challenges in life and business. If you hold on to a specific outcome (for example a product that you can’t seem to shift) you may not be able to react to changing circumstances.
You might miss a chance to evolve in a new, profitable direction. Markets readjust, your ideal customer evolves, and a trend might sweep in. There are many variables and you want to be flexible when creating offerings.
Or you might have a chance encounter that turns into a huge opportunity. Let go of fixed expectations to make room for personal and professional growth.
EMBRACE THE POWER OF NOW
When manifesting, we're often focused on getting what we want in the future, rather than being present. But let go of the future tripping.
Success and fulfillment aren't about the destination. They can be found in every single moment. This moment is all we have. The past is behind us and the future hasn't materialised yet.
As soon as you let go of the fixation on a specific result, you’re free to shift your energy and align with what's happening now.
Hang on and live each moment to the fullest. Let go getting a particular result, and you'll be able to enjoy the process of building and growing your business. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle is a classic on this topic.
HAVE FAITH THAT THE UNIVERSE HAS YOUR BACK
Gabby Bernstein says it well in her book The Universe Has Your Back. Rather than fixating on the how - or the timeline - focus on cultivating trust, faith and joy. Allow things to fall into place.
A heart-centered leader realises that everything is connected and believes in the universe's intelligence. In fact, your reality is co-created with the universe and surrendering control allows it to guide you in the right direction. Allowing things to happen, without getting too fixated on specific outcomes, allows you to respond to opportunities and synchronicities as they come your way.
Sound bonkers? Well, it’s a skill you can practice and improve.
COMMIT TO FEELING GOOD–OFTEN
The Law Of Attraction is likely the best known manifestation law and it resonates with Albert Einstein’s point:
“The most important decision we make is whether we believe we live in a friendly or hostile universe.”
Raise your feelings and thinking whenever possible as that can have an effect on what you attract. Positive feelings, expecting the best of others, being open-minded and balancing out tempers are all ways to let more of the good stuff come to you.
The Law Of Vibration is related to this. Everything holds a vibration and thoughts such as ‘I don’t have enough’ carry the vibration of lack and create a fear of scarcity. This is what we mean when we say something can be a self-fulfilling prophecy.
THE UNIVERSE SEEKS THE HIGHEST GOOD FOR ALL
Ask the universe to help you serve the highest good for all involved. You'll find creative possibilities and spiritual solutions you wouldn't have seen before.
If you serve the highest good for all, you detach from THE outcome you think you need. You open to this outcome OR something better for yourself and everyone involved. Living by this Law Of Oneness helps us cultivate more empathy, harmony, and respect for everything around us.
It heals by shifting our self-centered perspective, strengthens relationships, and supports our responsibilities as caretakers of the universe and everything in it.
Thank you for reading and head over to if you'd like to clear mental clutter and make space for your manifestation. Listen to this effective guided meditation you right now to help you in letting go.
xoxo Gwen
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